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PORUCH is a community that brings together the wives and partners of service members and veterans—a safe space for women who are used to being everyone else's support. Here you'll find care, a close circle, honest conversations, and an environment where you're understood without having to explain.

Built on research into the needs of wives and partners of veterans and service members in Ukraine.

Support and solidarity
You're not alone

If these thoughts feel familiar—you're not alone

Thousands of women have lived for years in a constant state of tension, anxiety, and emotional exhaustion. And very often, they're left to face it alone.

"I don't have the right to be tired."

"Now's not the time for me."

"I need to help my husband first."

"I've lost track of where I am in all of this."

Veteran family
The challenge

War doesn't only affect the veteran—it changes the whole family

Many women become everything their family needs at once:

  • emotional anchor
  • psychologist
  • crisis manager
  • the person who holds it all together

But while they're supporting everyone else, their own reserves slowly run out.

What we hear

What women often don't talk about

01

Emotional exhaustion

Constant anxiety, fatigue, and living in survival mode.

02

Losing yourself

Dreams, rest, and even health get put off for "later."

03

Loneliness

Even surrounded by loved ones, it can feel like no one truly understands.

04

Loss of closeness

War changes relationships, and many women are left to navigate that on their own.

What PORUCH offers

In PORUCH you won't find judgment—you'll find support

A living women's community

A space where people get you without a long explanation.

Support and a safe environment

Here you can speak honestly about exhaustion, fear, or burnout.

Restoring your energy

We help women reconnect with themselves and reclaim their lives.

New meaning and connections

Through shared experience, mutual support, and women's leadership.

How to join

How to join the community

01

Submit an application

Tell us briefly about yourself and your situation.

02

Meet the community

We'll invite you to upcoming meetings and activities.

03

Receive support

At your own pace. Without pressure. Without having to be "strong."

Research

PORUCH was built on the real experiences of women

Together with our partners at New Image Marketing Group, we conducted research on the needs of wives and partners of veterans and service members. We heard hundreds of stories about the most painful issues:

Emotional exhaustion 89%
Loneliness 76%
Losing yourself 82%
Relationship crisis 71%
Living under constant pressure 94%

Shoulder to Shoulder study, April 2026, partner — New Image Marketing Group

Mission

Our goal isn't only to help in the here and now

We aim to change the culture of support for veteran families in Ukraine, make women visible, and create space for recovery through community and mutual care.

Make veteran women visible

Build a culture of support for veteran families

Speak openly about women's burnout

Build strong women's communities

Shape a new culture of women's leadership in Ukraine

You don't have to go through this alone.

There are women nearby who understand.

Support is nearby. Community is nearby.

Veteran family